The brain, stomach, and heart are behind zero contact

Zero contact is a clinical measure recommended in situations of emotional dependence, abusive relationships, or highly toxic dynamics. From a professional perspective, this strategy seeks to interrupt harmful patterns and give the person space to regain their psycho-emotional autonomy. However, this process not only impacts the psychological sphere, but also involves neurobiological and physiological responses that explain why it is experienced with such intensity.

The impact on the brain in clinical terms, zero contact activates a process comparable to withdrawal syndrome. The person experiences anxiety, obsessive thoughts, and a need for contact due to the interruption of dopamine circuits related to the reward system. The cerebral amygdala, responsible for processing emotions such as fear and sadness, becomes hyperactive in the first few days, which explains the increase in distress. With therapeutic support, the prefrontal cortex, responsible for self-regulation and rational judgment, regains strength, allowing the decision to be sustained and the personal narrative to be restructured.

The brain-gut axis reflects the connection between emotion and the body. In the face of rupture and perceived threat, the sympathetic nervous system is activated, sending signals to the digestive system. This translates into symptoms such as stomach knots, diarrhea, loss of appetite, or slow digestion. The alteration in the intestinal microbiota decreases serotonin production, reinforcing sadness. With time and the restoration of healthy routines, homeostasis is restored, and the digestive system reflects emotional stabilization.

Clinically, the heart responds to the activation of the alert system. It is common to observe tachycardia, chest tightness, or insomnia in the early stages. On a symbolic level, the heart represents the emotional dimension, the grief for the lost bond, and the need to rebuild a sense of identity. This pain, although difficult, is part of an emotional process necessary to move toward resilience.

Zero contact, although therapeutically effective, is not without risks if it is not accompanied by clinical support. These risks include idealization of the lost bond, social isolation, and somatization of discomfort. Therefore, it is advisable to combine this strategy with psychotherapeutic interventions, support groups, and self-care practices that promote emotional regulation and integration of the traumatic experience.

In conclusion, from a mental health perspective, zero contact is a valid and necessary tool in processes of emotional recovery and breaking cycles of psychological violence. Although it activates neurobiological mechanisms of withdrawal and causes noticeable physical reactions, with adequate support, it becomes a path to the comprehensive healing of the brain, body, and heart.

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